Here are five great reasons to date multiple people -- at once: 1. So many people date "comfortably"; they keep seeing people who are nice, but they never date anyone who really excites them.They go out with whoever happens to cross their path and then don't look any further.He’s dated some of the planet’s most beautiful women, ranging from a Miss World contestant, to a model for Coca-Cola, to one of “Brazil’s Next Top Models.” His specialty is daytime street stops. I want to talk about multiplicity in your dating life. They think someone who dates several people at once must be a cheater, a commitment-phobe or at a minimum, a liar.But while most of our users are very comfortable communicating with multiple matches online, they sometimes get a bit more hesitant when emails turn into phone calls that start turning into dates, and they find themselves going for coffee with Mike on Tuesday, bowling with Bill on Thursday, and to a movie with Steve on Friday.
Over the past few weeks in particular, I’ve had quite a few readers tell me that they’re dating multiple people, something I find exhausting just thinking about it, but at the same time rather fascinating because I find that people give me all sorts of reasons for they do it: I’m just experimenting with dating. Remember how you didn’t like it when Mr Unavailable had a narcissistic harem of women he was dipping in and out of for an ego stroke? It’s where you discover the facts that will help you determine whether you should green light, date some more and potentially move into a relationship, or whether you should red light and abort the mission.Imagine being at a buffet where you could see only one item at a time.The former beau of model Jerry Hall, Tim Attias, who is currently being sued by Rubicon Fund Management -- the hedge fund he used to manage -- allegedly had some interesting dating rules, according to some of his friends. Always call her darling (to avoid embarrassing mis-ups over names). Do not hold hands in the street (to avoid being spotted in compromising positions by other loves).or maybe you just want to sow your wild oats for a while before settling down with the right girl.Either way, I’m here to tell you that it is more than Hollywood fiction and very possible.